C1 - Lesson 3: Euphemisms & Dysphemisms
The Power of Polite & Impolite Language
At an advanced level, vocabulary is not just about meaning; it's about impact. The words we choose can soften a harsh reality or make a neutral statement seem negative. This lesson explores the powerful concepts of euphemisms and dysphemisms. Understanding them is key to mastering the subtle connotation3 of language and communicating with a high degree of social awareness.
- A Euphemism1 is a mild, indirect, or polite word used in place of one that might seem too harsh, blunt, or embarrassing. (Making something sound better).
- A Dysphemism2 is a harsh, derogatory, or blunt word used instead of a more neutral one. (Making something sound worse).
Euphemisms vs. Dysphemisms: A Comparison
Let's examine some common topics and the different ways we can talk about them.
| Topic / Neutral Term | Euphemism (Softer/Politer) | Dysphemism (Harsh/Ruder) |
|---|---|---|
| To fire someone | to let someone go, to make redundant | to sack, to give someone the boot |
| Poor area | an economically disadvantaged area | a slum, a ghetto |
| Old person | a senior citizen, a mature person | an old geezer, a fossil |
| To die | to pass away, to be no longer with us | to bite the dust, to croak |
| Lying | being economical with the truth | spreading filth, talking trash |
Discourse in Action: The Impact of Tone
Notice how word choice completely changes the tone in this scenario about a company downsizing.
Scenario 1: Manager speaking to an employee (using euphemisms)
"Thank you for coming in, Dara. The company is currently going through a restructuring, and we've had to make the difficult decision to eliminate some positions. Unfortunately, your role has been made redundant. We want to thank you for your service and will be providing a severance package to help you transition to your next opportunity."
Analysis: The language is impersonal and corporate. "Redundant" and "transition" avoid the direct, harsh reality of "fired."
Scenario 2: An angry employee talking to a friend (using dysphemisms)
"Can you believe it? After five years, they just gave me the boot! No warning. The boss didn't even have the courage to say I was sacked, he just talked about 'restructuring.' What a joke!"
Analysis: The language is emotional and harsh. "Gave me the boot" and "sacked" convey a sense of injustice and disrespect.
quiz Check Your Understanding
1. In a news report, a journalist refers to civilian deaths in a war as "collateral damage." This is an example of a...
- a) Dysphemism
- b) Euphemism
- c) Neutral term
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Answer: b) Euphemism (It's used to make the reality of civilian deaths sound less direct and shocking).
2. If you refer to a person who saves money carefully as "stingy," you are using a...
- a) Dysphemism
- b) Euphemism
- c) Compliment
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Answer: a) Dysphemism (The neutral term might be "thrifty" or "frugal," but "stingy" has a negative connotation).
3. A friend tells you their grandfather "passed away." Why did they choose this phrase?
- a) To sound more academic and intelligent.
- b) To show disrespect.
- c) To speak about a sad topic in a gentle and respectful way.
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Answer: c) To speak about a sad topic in a gentle and respectful way.
edit Your Mission
- Analyze the Nuance: Consider the neutral term "a used car." Write down one potential euphemism a salesperson might use, and one potential dysphemism a dissatisfied customer might use.
- Real-World Detective: Read or listen to an interview with a politician or a business leader in English. Listen for language that seems indirect. Can you identify one euphemism they use to describe a difficult situation (e.g., economic problems, policy failures)?
- Rewrite for Tone: Take this neutral sentence: "The company closed the factory." Rewrite it twice. First, as a corporate announcement using euphemisms. Second, as a comment from an angry, unemployed worker using dysphemisms.
book Lesson Glossary
- Euphemism (noun) - Khmer: ភាសាស្រទន់ (pʰie-sa srɑ-tɔn) - A mild or indirect word or expression substituted for one considered to be too harsh or blunt when referring to something unpleasant or embarrassing. ↩
- Dysphemism (noun) - Khmer: ភាសាគ្រោតគ្រាត (pʰie-sa krout-kriet) - A derogatory or unpleasant term used instead of a more neutral one. ↩
- Connotation (noun) - Khmer: ន័យបង្កប់ (ney bɑng-kɔp) - An idea or feeling that a word invokes in addition to its literal or primary meaning. ↩