⚙️ Lesson 8: "be used to" vs. "get used to"
In our last lesson, we learned about "used to + infinitive" for past habits. Today, we look at two similar-sounding phrases with completely different meanings and structures: "be used to" and "get used to." These phrases are not about the past; they are about familiarity1.
The most important rule is that "be used to" and "get used to" are followed by a noun or a gerund2 (verb-ing form).
"be used to" — The State of Being Familiar
We use "be used to" to say that we are accustomed to3 a situation. It feels normal or comfortable for us now. It describes a state.
Structure: Subject + be (am, is, are, was, were) + used to + noun / gerund
- "I am a teacher, so I am used to speaking in front of people."
- "He lives in Battambang, so he is used to the hot weather." (noun)
"get used to" — The Process of Becoming Familiar
We use "get used to" to talk about the process4 of something becoming normal. It is about adaptation5 to a new situation.
Structure: Subject + get (get, gets, got) + used to + noun / gerund
- "I just moved from the countryside. I am still getting used to the noise of the city." (present process)
- "It took her a few months, but she finally got used to living in a new country." (past process)
The Big Contrast: Three Different Meanings
Let's review all three structures. This is the most important part of the lesson!
1. used to + infinitive (Past Habit)
"I used to live in Phnom Penh." (I don't live there anymore.)
2. be used to + -ing/noun (Familiar State)
"I live in Battambang now. I am used to living here." (Living here is normal for me now.)
3. get used to + -ing/noun (Process of Adapting)
"When I first moved here, it took time to get used to the slower pace of life." (This was the process of adaptation.)
🧠 Practice Quiz: Choose the Correct Form
Choose the best option to complete each sentence.
- When I was a child, I _______ play outside all day, but now I work in an office.
Answer: used to (This describes a past habit that is no longer true.) - I have lived in Cambodia for five years, so I _______ the hot weather now.
Answer: am used to (This describes a current state of familiarity.) - She just started a new job where she must wake up at 5 AM. It's difficult, but she is slowly _______ it.
Answer: getting used to (This describes a process of adaptation happening now.) - It took me a while, but I finally _______ driving my moto in the busy city traffic.
Answer: got used to (This describes a completed process of adaptation in the past.)
📝 Homework: Your Life Changes
Write true sentences about your own life using the target grammar.
- Write about something new in your life that you are adapting to now. Use "get used to".
(Example: I am getting used to my new schedule at work.)
_________________________________________ - Write about something that is normal for you now. Use "be used to".
(Example: I am used to eating rice every day.)
_________________________________________ - Write about a past habit you don't have anymore. Use "used to".
(Example: I used to watch cartoons when I was a child.)
_________________________________________
Vocabulary Glossary
- Familiarity: (Noun) - ការคุ้นเคย (kaa koun'koeuy) - A good knowledge of something, making you feel comfortable. ↩
- Gerund: (Noun) - កិរិយានាម (kĕ'rĭ'yaa'néam) - A verb form which functions as a noun, ending in "-ing" (e.g., "I like swimming.") ↩
- Accustomed to: (Adjective Phrase) - ស៊ាំទៅនឹង (soam tov nɨng) - To be familiar with something and accept it as normal. ↩
- Process: (Noun) - ដំណើរការ (dâm'naeu'kaa) - A series of actions that you take in order to achieve a result. ↩
- Adaptation: (Noun) - ការปรับខ្លួន (kaa prăp'kluən) - The process of changing to suit a new situation. ↩