Lesson 4: Fixed Expressions for Discourse Management
Controlling the Flow of Conversation
Great speakers don't just know words; they know how to manage a conversation. Discourse management is like being a traffic controller for your dialogue. It involves using fixed expressions for signposting—giving signals to your listener about where the conversation is going next. Are you adding a point? Changing the subject? Disagreeing politely? Using these phrases will make your English sound much more natural, organized, and easy to follow.
Key Vocabulary
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Discourse Management
The skill of organizing and controlling a conversation.
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Signposting
Using words and phrases to signal to a listener what you are about to say.
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Transition
The process of changing from one subject or stage to another.
The Expression Bank: Six Conversational Tools
Here are six fixed expressions that you will hear and use all the time in daily conversations.
1. To Add Another Point
- Expressions: On top of that, ... / As well as that, ... / Not only that, but...
- Application: Use these to add another piece of information to strengthen your argument.
- Example: The tour was very crowded. On top of that, the bus was 30 minutes late.
2. To Change the Subject
- Expressions: By the way, ... / Anyway, ... / Speaking of which, ...
- Application: Use "By the way" to introduce a completely new topic. Use "Speaking of which" to transition from something that was just mentioned.
- Example: I finished the report. By the way, are you going to the party on Saturday?
- Example: "I need to get my moto repaired." / "Speaking of which, do you know a good mechanic in Kampot?"
3. To Give Your Opinion
- Expressions: As far as I'm concerned, ... / From my point of view, ... / The way I see it, ...
- Application: These are excellent phrases to clearly and politely state your personal opinion.
- Example: As far as I'm concerned, the new coffee shop near the Old Market is the best in town.
4. To Politely Disagree
- Expressions: I see your point, but... / I take your point, but... / I understand what you're saying, however...
- Application: This is a crucial skill. You first show respect for the other person's opinion before giving your own, different view.
- Example: I see your point that a motorbike is faster, but I think a bicycle is better for enjoying the countryside.
In Conversation: Planning a Weekend
Here is a short dialogue between two friends, Piseth and Chanlina, discussing their plans.
Piseth: I'm so glad it's Friday! Any plans for the weekend?
Chanlina: Not really. I was thinking of just relaxing. In general, my weekends are for resting.
Piseth: That's a good idea. I was thinking of going to the market. On the other hand, it's probably going to be very busy.
Chanlina: It usually is. Oh, by the way, is that new coffee shop near Pub Street open yet?
Piseth: As far as I know, it opens next week. We should go then!
Chanlina: Definitely. My brother wants to visit it too. He knows he has to study for his exams, but he said he'll have to take a break sooner or later.
Check Your Understanding
- 1. The bus should be here at 2 PM, ________, but sometimes it's late.
- a) by the way
- b) all of a sudden
- c) as far as I know
Answer: C) as far as I know
This expression correctly shows that you believe the information is true but are not 100% certain. - 2. I love living in Cambodia because the weather is warm. ________, the traffic can be really bad sometimes.
- a) On the other hand
- b) In general
- c) Sooner or later
Answer: A) On the other hand
This expression is used to introduce a contrasting idea (warm weather vs. bad traffic). - 3. If you keep practicing every day, ________ you will become a great guitar player.
- a) by the way
- b) sooner or later
- c) all of a sudden
Answer: B) sooner or later
This means "eventually" or "at some future time." - 4. We were watching the football match, and ________ the lights went out!
- a) in general
- b) on the other hand
- c) all of a sudden
Answer: C) all of a sudden
This correctly expresses that something happened suddenly and unexpectedly.
Your Mission
- Active Listening: Find a YouTube video or podcast of two native English speakers having a conversation. Listen for 5 minutes and write down any of today's fixed expressions that you hear.
- Write a Paragraph: Write a short paragraph (3-4 sentences) about your opinion on online learning versus classroom learning. Try to use "in general" and "on the other hand" in your paragraph.
- Start a Conversation: Next time you are speaking English with a friend, try to use "by the way" to change the topic naturally.