Speaking: Interactive Communication B2
Managing & Guiding Conversations
Your Conversation Management Toolkit 🛠️
A skillful communicator has a range of phrases to manage the flow of a conversation. Here are some of the most important tools.
1. To Interrupt Politely
Use when you have an important and relevant point to add.
- "Can I just jump in here?"
- "Sorry to interrupt, but I just wanted to mention..."
2. To Hold Your Turn
Use when someone interrupts you before you have finished.
- "If you'll just let me finish..."
- "Just one moment, I haven't completed my point."
3. To Change the Subject
Use to smoothly transition to a new topic.
- "Speaking of [topic], that reminds me..."
- "Oh, by the way, I've been meaning to ask you..."
4. To Get Back on Track
Use when a discussion has lost focus.
- "Getting back to what we were discussing..."
- "Let's circle back to the main issue."
Scenario: A Team Meeting 💬
Listen to this meeting excerpt. Notice how the speakers use different phrases to manage the conversation.
Cultural Awareness 🌍
💡 Interrupting Politely in Different Cultures
How we manage conversations can be very dependent on culture. In many Western business contexts, a polite, well-timed interruption is seen as a sign of confidence and engagement. However, in many Asian cultures, including Cambodia, interrupting a senior or elder can be seen as disrespectful.
A good strategy:- Know Your Audience: Be more direct with peers. Be more cautious and respectful with seniors.
- Use Softer Language: When speaking with a superior, soften your interruption: "Excuse me, Manager, may I ask a quick clarifying question?"
- Wait for a Natural Pause: The most respectful way to enter the conversation is always to wait for the other speaker to pause for breath.
Check Your Understanding 🎯
Practice Quiz: What's the Function?
1. "That's a valid point. However, I think we're getting off-topic. Let's circle back to the main agenda."
A) Changing the subject.
B) Interrupting politely.
C) Bringing the conversation back on track.
→ Answer: C. The phrase "let's circle back" is a clear signal to return to the main topic.
2. "If I could just add one thing before we move on..."
A) Interrupting or taking a turn.
B) Holding your turn.
C) Changing the subject.
→ Answer: A. This is a polite way to enter the conversation and add a point.
Key Vocabulary
- Interactive Involving a two-way flow of information between people.
- On track Making progress and likely to achieve a goal.
- Interrupt To say something that makes somebody stop speaking.
- Manage To have control over something and make decisions about it.
Your Mission: The Active Communicator ⭐
Your mission this week is to practice one of these active communication strategies in a real conversation.
- Listen actively in your next group meeting or discussion in English.
- Identify an opportunity to use one of the strategies from this lesson.
- Try one. For example: Politely interrupt to ask a question ("Sorry to interrupt, but could you clarify...?"), or guide the conversation back ("Getting back to your original point...").
The goal is not to dominate, but to feel the confidence that comes from being able to help guide the conversation effectively.