Lesson 3: Common Proverbs & Sayings
Applying Traditional Wisdom
While idioms are phrases we use inside sentences, a proverb is often a complete sentence that gives advice or states a general truth about life. These sayings contain traditional wisdom that has been passed down through generations. Understanding their application—knowing *when* to use them—is a key skill for sounding wise and fluent in English.
Key Vocabulary
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Proverb
A short, well-known sentence that states a general truth or gives advice.
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Wisdom
The quality of having experience, knowledge, and good judgment.
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Application
The practical use of something in a particular situation.
Key Proverbs and Their Applications
Let's look at some common proverbs and the situations where they are most useful.
1. Actions speak louder than words.
- Meaning: What you actually do is more important and more believable than what you say you will do.
- Application: Use this when someone makes a promise but doesn't keep it, or to praise someone whose actions are good.
- Example: He said he wanted to help the community, but he never volunteers. You know, actions speak louder than words.
2. The early bird gets the worm.
- Meaning: The person who starts something early or arrives first has the best chance of success.
- Application: Use this to encourage someone (or yourself) to wake up or start a task early to get an advantage.
- Example: If you want to buy the freshest seafood from the market in Kep, you must be there by 6 AM. The early bird gets the worm!
3. Don't count your chickens before they hatch.
- Meaning: Don't make plans that depend on something good happening before you are certain that it has actually happened.
- Application: Use this to advise a friend who is overly confident about a future success that is not yet guaranteed.
- Example: She was already planning how to spend her bonus money before the company had even announced bonuses. I told her, "Don't count your chickens before they hatch."
4. Two heads are better than one.
- Meaning: It's easier to solve a problem or think of an idea when two people work together instead of one person working alone.
- Application: Use this to suggest collaboration or to ask for help with a difficult problem.
- Example: I can't solve this difficult math problem alone. Can you look at it with me? Two heads are better than one.
In Conversation
Chantha and Boran are discussing Chantha's plan to start a new business in Kampot.
Chantha: My business plan is perfect! I'm going to be so successful. I'm already looking at renting a big, expensive office.
Boran: That's exciting, but be careful. Don't count your chickens before they hatch. You should secure the loan from the bank first.
Chantha: You're right, that's more logical. The loan application is very complicated. I'm not sure I can do it alone.
Boran: I can help you review it this weekend. You know what they say, two heads are better than one.
Chantha: Thank you! I promise I'll work hard to make this succeed. I want to prove I can do it, not just talk about it.
Boran: That's the right attitude to have. After all, actions speak louder than words.
Check Your Understanding
- To get the best seats at the cinema, you should go early. Which proverb applies here?
- a) Two heads are better than one.
- b) Actions speak louder than words.
- c) The early bird gets the worm.
Answer: c) The early bird gets the worm.
- Your friend is having trouble planning a big event by herself. What can you say to offer help?
- a) "Don't count your chickens before they hatch."
- b) "Let me help you. Two heads are better than one."
- c) "Actions speak louder than words."
Answer: b) "Let me help you. Two heads are better than one."
- A politician makes many promises but does nothing. This situation demonstrates that...
- a) the early bird gets the worm.
- b) actions speak louder than words.
- c) two heads are better than one.
Answer: b) actions speak louder than words. (The lack of action is what is important).
Your Mission
- Cultural Wisdom: Think of a wise saying or proverb from your own language (Khmer: សុភាសិត). Does its meaning match any of the proverbs in this lesson? Write it down.
- Give Advice: Your friend has a great idea for a phone app but hasn't started writing any code yet. He is already talking about becoming a millionaire. What advice would you give him using a proverb from this lesson?
- Tell a Story: Write two or three sentences about a time when you (or someone you know) succeeded because you started something early. Which proverb describes your story?